All of us, in some deep and undeniable way, yearn for the company of a big tiddy goth gf.
When you're having a conversation with her, try to summarize what she's said in your own words and ask her if you've got it right.
There are certain other sub-cultures and lifestyles, which are close to or allied with dark-gothic subculture.
Some directors, like Tim Burton, and record labels, like Cleopatra, Projekt, and Anubis, are considered to be more representative of the goth subculture than others.